Are you ever sitting in your house and looking at your spouse and ask yourself " How on earth are we together "? Thinking to yourself we've been together for years but we don't have absolutely one thing in common. We don't like the same music , TV shows , food , he likes spicy , you like sweet , she likes salads you like meat. You don't laugh at the same things and sex and intimacy is far and few between. To be honest as it stands , you wouldn't stop each other on the street. But how did you get here , from how it used to be ?Remember when you met , you used to laugh at anything , couldn't wait to see each other and make up reasons just to see , his or her face , you used to race , just to kiss and get their taste , now you pucker up your lips , and do it quick , so you both don't feel a thing. Used to talk dirty during sex , and call out each others names , now she flinches when you touch her , and planned sex just feels so lame. Neither one of you would cheat cause it's just not in your DNA. But the distance thats grown between you seems futher from here to Spain. But no one outside the two of you would notice. Because your actions are so routine. Babe you want some , can I get you , No , you go ahead , and now your " I love you's " sound so mundane. What happened to the passion and the excitement you both would bring. Didn't care how incompatible or different you were , used to make efforts to connect the dots , just to make you feel like your the same. Now you notice every difference , and it feels like a boring game. Was it the years spent together getting older that killed the dream. Is it someone else showing interest that makes you want to jump ship and leave the team. it's amazing how love can go from passionate to losing all its steam. Remember why you fell in love and all the things you overcame. The arguments and ups and downs and when love didn't cost a thing. All the trials and tribulations you got through is probably the worst that you will see and that grass is greener scenario is a mirage you'll probably never gain. Some of us think we're still as hot and have the same appeal as we did when we were in our younger days. But in reality we don't look , dress , feel or act the same. It's easier to tend your grass then to go looking for new game. Remember why you fell in love , you just might ignite or rekindle your Flame!
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