I think most people don’t understand what it means to “be there for someone”. People think just because they was there for someone that they really did something for the person. (Maybe they did)

With being there for someone: people leave out the most important part. What really matters is the way that you are there for someone. Meaning: if you were there for someone (helped them in their time of need) but you treated them like crap, Were you really there for them? It doesn’t matter if you were there for someone or not, it’s about the way that you were there for them.

The point I’m getting at is: the people who are closest to you have the most hidden agendas. Everyone have their own definitions and examples when it comes to “being there for someone.” Some people only be there for you to throw it in your face later.

Whenever they are angry, they be there for you to gossip about you or brag about their good “fortune” as if you’re a charity case, in order to get something in return, etc. Plus everyone has their own motives too. People have good and bad motives.

Being there for someone means absolutely nothing if your intentions with them are jacked up. The way you are there for someone matters most. (That’s what they remember) People won’t always remember every single thing you’ve done for them. But they’ll always remember the way you made them feel. They’ll always remember the way you treated them. It’s not about being there for someone , it’s about how you’re there for them. It’s not about what you do, it’s how you do it. -W.O.S.
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