So they don't love you for who you are, THEY LOVE YOU FOR WHO THEY THINK YOU SHOULD BE. That again very CONDITIONAL LOVE. Of course, they wont to say that, they'll be like, WE LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT, it's like the form of an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP where serten things will be withheld, or you're going to be told you're a sinner, you need to repent which is abusive, you have a very unhealthy abusive dynamic here.

KIM SAY: she realizes something interesting, church leaders learn towards shaping people's behaviors and beliefs, while many will agree that we don't work our way to salvation, once Someone makes that decision they are told it's imperative they follow any number of rules and quid lines. I believe this is a backwards way of thinking.

She is absolutely right. This is the really confusing, think about Christianity and all religions they will say ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST AND YOUR SAVED, or ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BELIEVE IN GOD AND THEN YOUR SAVED.
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