Relationships aren't just filled with mushy love, and goosebumps.
That's the easy part.
 I'm sure you don't live in a world that only exist in romance novels.
  Relationships take effort from both to make it work.
Listening, and understanding what your partner says, and feels is important.
You don't have to agree on everything with your significant other.
However this is where compromise, and patience come in, and are just as important.
These are...