REAL FACTS ABOUT HAVING A CRUSH

Anyone who hasn't had a crush over a guy or a lady? I thought so, we've all had right? And am certain a lot of us currently have. It's not a bad thing I must say, it's normal!

Weird thing about this crush or infatuation thing is that it's stupid, yes it is and I'll say it again, "ITS DUMP"! You want to know why? Let me tell you, a crush is a very strong but brief feeling of love. Being strong means you may find yourself having done serious and foolish stuff in the name of love that isn't even real, ask me I know, am a living testimony.

Sometimes you may even get to lose what's more valuable in your life all because of a crush, people do fight with their wives and husbands over a 'crush' you know what am saying. The usual case is that we normally view beauty in what's new, in what we've just seen, then we lose interest in the old, that's a fact.


Butterflies, chemistry, vibes, that feeling of being tingly all over—there are many ways to describe infatuation. We’ve all had crushes, from the very first moment we locked eyes on that guy or girl in the playground. All it takes is that special someone to make our palms sweaty and our hearts pound.

Your happiness has no bounds when you see such a perfect (only to you) human being in front of you. Although you have no clue what they think about you and if what YOU think even matters, you can't help but compare them with your exes in everything they do.

Nobody likes to be a stalker but it's not a choice in this case. You spend most of your time looking at that person at school/office/college/street or stalk them on social media. You spend less time in thinking of ways to approach that person because looking at them makes your day anyway.

Helpless imagination.
You often get delusional about how it would be if you start dating that person. You don't like to regret (because that's exactly how it should be for all of us). So that's the brief moment when you gauge all the courage to talk to them.

No seriously, you suddenly go the dumb way when they walk up to you or vice versa. You're unable to speak, forget asking them out. His/her aura is too intimidating for you to handle. And all that is left is - you blabbering and making a complete fool out of yourself.

I's nauseating.
By the end of each day, your anxiety kills you. "Will I ever get to talk to this person? What if she starts dating and I regret not talking to her all my life? Am I in love? Aaaahhh... " The part you're forgetting here is - that's a 'crush' you're talking about.

Panicking about accidentally entering a 'friend-zone'.
You keep yourself from doing things you don't want to with this person but that doesn't mean, you make them your friend. You try your best NOT to make that person your friend and if you do, a few months down the line, you wonder WITH them how it would've been if you guys had dated and THAT secretly pisses you off.

Ditching your friends.
It becomes a habit to drop everything, every plan, and running to your crush if he/she asks you to hang out at the coffee shop. At the same time, you have butterflies in your stomach that makes you throw up.

Over-confidence.
No matter how much you've stalked this person, if he/she messages you or shows any kind of interest in you, you act really confident, a little too confident, which may or may not be good for your future plans.

Constant restlessness.
"Does she like me, does she not?"
And so binge eating AND drinking becomes a habit.
You certainly forget how you need to stay fit to increase the possibility of getting a positive response from your crush. So the stress makes you eat, drink, cry, imagine and PASS OUT.

11. Analytical skills.
You analyse each and every move of that person - the man of your dreams."He ignored me. Does that mean he also has a secret crush on me."
Over-excitement if they say 'yes' (for anything).
"Can I take you to dinner sometime?" A yes to this question drives you crazy.

Insomnia.
Waiting for her text. Waiting for her to come online on Facebook. "Does she like me, can she like me?" Crushing on someone can be really harmful that way

Jealous.
You tend to forget that he/she is just your crush. So, whenever they talk about their past with any other girl, it makes you super jealous and it is VERY OBVIOUS.

My advice to you today and forever is that don't lose what's been valuable to you over what you've just met. Have a delightful of weekend

Nkosingphile Ntshalintshali




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