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LEARN HOW TO GROW
The only way you can learn and grow from your mistakes in life is when you admit them and embrace them, that is when you will likely not make the same mistake again, but if you allow pride and ego to cloud your judgment instead of admitting to your mistakes because you don't want people to see you as if you don't know what you are doing and laugh at you, then you will keep repeating the same mistakes and you will be stuck in one place because of pride, you never change and if you don't change, you can not grow, everybody makes mistakes, but the people who are not afraid to admit and learn are the wisest people and smartest people, be smart enough to accept when you are wrong, it is called; being "RESPONSIBLE".

It might be uncomfortable for that moment but that discomfort you feel when you admit to it is what will always remind you never to make that same mistake because you will never want to put yourself in a position where you will feel that stupid again or feel that pain again.

The strongest characters that can never be broken were made by feeling uncomfortable, feeling uncomfortable by confronting yourself with the harsh truth or reality is the only way you can learn so you will be able to live comfortably in the future, too much comfort conforms you to forget what it feels like to be human, it makes you live a superficial life and run away from who you are truly supposed to become because pain is part of what shapes our character as humans, you can only know your true self when you know when you did the right thing and praise yourself even if no one praise you or query yourself when you do something wrong even when no one knows, that is how you balance things.

It is okay not to be okay sometimes, it is okay to be wrong, it is okay to cry, it is okay to ask for help when you need it, it is okay to ask questions when you are lost and it is okay to look for a shoulder to lean on, it is all part of being human except you are an alien from another world because anybody who is human and has red blood cells in their body and a heart pumping that blood in their chest who does not display any of these traits when the need for them arises is not living but just breathing. What is not okay is for you to pretend that everything is okay with you when it is not.

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