How do you feel about anger? Growing up, I always felt that anger was “bad.” In school and at home I learned that anger made people do “bad” things, and anger was a source of “evil” in the world.
in school when I was 9years a beautiful girl 👧 like me stepped on me and she said nothing like "Am sorry " I was so angry because of my lovely shoes that got stained , I was about fighting her then someone shouted no don't do that she's blind.
tears roll down from my eye I then apologizes to her for shouting at her.
Sometimes been patient and slow to react is the key needed to relate and understand things betters.


In the village of old time there was a very handsome brother's named Cain and his brother, Abel, they were the first two sons of Adam. When these sons grew up, Cain became a farmer and Abel became a shepherd.
Cain and Abel had been taught the right way to worship God. They knew that God required an offering of innocent animals as a sacrifice for their sins. But, when they came to worship God, only one brother was obedient to God.

Abel brought a lamb as his offering, but Cain brought fruit from his crops as his offering.

God accepted Abel and his offering, but He rejected Cain and his offering. As a result of this, Cain became very angry. He was angry at God and jealous of his brother.

Cain rose up against his brother and murdered him
God warned Cain of the consequences of his anger. God's message to Cain was this: "Look out!
Your anger is like a lion lying in wait outside your door.
You must master your anger or it will master you." But Cain did not respond to God's warning. His jealousy of Abel turned into hatred.

One wonderful and lovely day, as Cain and Abel were in the field together, At first he acted like a Good person but unknown to his brother Abel ,cain had plans in his mind so he came up with a trick but sadly the brother fall for the tricks so cain rose up against his brother and murdered him.
Thus the first man born into this world became a murderer because he did not control his anger.

Creating action steps around anger is essential because it puts you back in control of your emotions. We cannot always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react.

Anger is the most violent of human emotions. Because it involves such strong feelings, anger borders closely on sin. The Bible does not say, "Be kind, but sin not," or "Love, but do not sin," because kindness and love are far removed from sin. But when we are angry, we are in danger of sinning. Someone has said, "If we are to be angry and sin not, we must be angry at nothing but sin."


We humans are funny. Sometimes we don’t let ourselves have what we want, then we’re mad when we see someone else getting what we want.
Many people, when angry, simply will not admit their anger. They say, "I am NOT angry!" Others admit that they have a temper but do not see it as a serious sin.

Anger is what happens when you don’t listen to yourself. When you ignore your impulses and intuition and let yourself be swayed against your inner guidance. Anger won’t let you get away with going against yourself. Anger requires a thoughtful, attentive ability to listen, to truly hear how you feel, what you think, what your instincts are. When these essential pieces of information get pushed aside anger will yank you back and demand your attention.
Listen to yourself, what is your inner guidance saying?

When someone keeps you waiting a long time, you do not have to lose your temper. You can say, "Lord, You know that I need to learn patience. You are in control of my circumstances, and You have allowed this to teach me to be more patient."

When someone says or does something that hurts your pride, you don't have to get angry. You can say, "Lord, You know how proud I am. I thank You for dealing with me about my sinful pride."

When others do not do what you want them to do and you cannot have your own way, this is your chance to die to SELF. You can say, "Lord, I always want to have my own way, but You know what is best for me. I accept Your way."


Anger teaches us to address our true thoughts and feelings as they arise so they don’t reach this point of fermentation. Anger can feel like a last resort to release any repressed emotions. Learning this lesson is about learning how to express yourself honestly and completely in the moment rather than burying it for a later date.

Are you holding back any thoughts or feelings from being fully expressed?

Step in dealing with your anger is to stop and honestly analyze it:
Is it righteous anger, sinful anger, or a mixture of both?
Think about why you’re angry.
God used this approach with Cain when He asked, “Why are you angry?” (Gen. 4:6). God never asks questions to gain information, but rather to help the person think about the situation from God’s perspective.
Cain was angry because God had rejected his sacrifice and he was jealous of his brother, whose sacrifice God had accepted. God went on to exhort Cain to do well and to warn him that sin was crouching at the door, ready to devour him. But Cain ignored God’s counsel and murdered his brother.


Anger is energy; you need to recycle that energy into something more productive.
Anger can be controlled if you analyze it as to its source, recognize and confess it as sin, and deal decisively with it as you walk in the Spirit.


Think of what would happen if everyone learned to deal with their anger!

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