When a baby is born, he/she deserves to have a good or at least a favourable surrounding which can help in baby's growth, physically as well as psychologically. But not always it's easier to have.
Because the story is hard, really hard. Parents are the birth-givers, but may be somewhere they get possessed by overconfidence now a days. No doubt they give birth to a new child, they rear a child, spend on a child - but is that all ?
Poor parents don't have great baby foods to feed baby, they love thier child & want to give a good environment to the baby but they can't give.
And some modern day parents are awful, really awful; because they think money can buy happiness & culture for their baby. They expense greatly on the baby, great caretaker, great school, great doctor, great environment; but they often miss one thing, i.e. Love or attachment or mental support. They want to feel their ambition by their son/daughter but their is a term called "psychological support" - they often forget this. They thought "We are providing great things to our child, we are spending a lot into him/her. So why he/she will not achieve the Great!"
But dear modern parents! You didn't ask him/her that is he/she really want this? Or you are just turning him/her into just a new "Busy Robot" like you! You never asked this.
And when the child will understand the flaws in your (parents) planing, he/she will take a stand for him/her, you will call him/her a rebel, beat him/her and may be, may be you "The Great Parents" will drive your child away from your home for just being a MISMATCH to your "Unwanted investment".
Great ya! Nice plan..
Some times I really think that besides the educational development/blood donation camps, government should also organize an "ASSEMBLY on Child Psychology and Parental care" annually, where Psychology books will be given to the parents after the assembly.
And please my request to all the religious leaders : Don't point out/teach children to see their parents as GODS, because parents are also Common human beings - they have their goods or bads, they have their cool or hot temper also & made up with common flesh & blood. And when you indicate PARENT as GOD then obviously A CHILD will want UNEXPECTED things from a GOD and obviously most of the parents can't afford every needed things to their child and collision will occur.
So let's make the world beautiful with original real-life truths though these can be hard at the begining, but humans should not try to bring Peace with the false promises anymore.
© mainak