Do you know what’s disturbin to me, ladies?
It’s that we don’t listen to our guts sometimes?
We don’t, especially when it comes to a man
Who mistreat us…we’re so blind, we don’t care
What our loved ones and real friends say…

We become lost, so lost continuin to
Follow our hearts without a brain
Which is sad…we don’t listen…
We say I can take care of myself
I can change him, he loves me…
Rollin our eyes like we ignore the harsh reality

Nothin clickin on our minds
Til it’s too late…and Mr. Right
Keep passin us by missin our chances
Cos we still wanna be with the wrong ones..

What’s possess us to stay even deep down
We have to leave him? With all the damage he
Has done? We don’t know what it’s like to be with
A real man who loves and cares?

A real man don’t abuse his woman he love…
She’s not his punchin bag…not a rag doll to throw around…
We don’t know anythin about healthy relationships
Only toxicity…

It’s really sad..
All we want to be loved…
Someone asked us what is love?
Most of us say we don’t know….
We see it in movies and tv shows
On social networks…
But don’t have actual knowledge of
What love is…

What does real love looks like?
What does it look like for us?
Cos apparently we women don’t actually love
Ourselves first….we’re not takin our souls…
We don’t understand our worth…

We just jump into relationship and hope
That a man would love us too…
While not listenin to our instincts…
Not seein the signs, the red flags…
And we defend our men who doesn’t give a fuck about us

It happened all the time….

I hate to say it though
It’s like Stockholm syndrome
In a way big time…

Ladies
My sistahs
My besties
Please listen to your intuition
Please?
It’s always right…
It can save your life
And if you believe in god or universe
They live inside your gut, sayin
He’s no good for you…

Even when your mama knows
She has a bad feelin for him
She told you she doesn’t like him
She be knowin sometimes you gotta trust
Her judgment…she knows…

💯✊🏿♥️©️ Kai C. 5-21-24
© Kai C..