Holding & Healing

Before the moment there is holding
Before the stroke there is stillness
Before the caress there is quiteness

One of the most beautful and
powerful strokes of Massage
is not moving at all.
It is holding, in stillness

In presence deep presence
Holding with your heart, holding
Simply ressting your hand on her body
With gentleness, with love, with presence
With the intention of only being with you

Holding brngs you into your body
I often use it as an earth massage
It defines your body
It brings towards your center, bringing you to your core,
it is where the connection begins.

There is a healing in being held
No movement, no expectation, no anticipation
There is a stillness of being in time the mind
Will still as the body quitens

Create a space a sacred space,
a sensual space.
Warm welcoming, comforting.
Choose the elements with harmony.
Breath, a few deep breaths
to become present.

Look into your partner eyes
Together, bring your
hands up to your heart
center in the middle of your chest.

Breathe Bring your hands to touch
Acknowledge each other
with what ever words
that are approriate may be
for a lover or a ?.

Lay them down on their back
Comfortable, warm
Cushions for support where ever they need
Sit beside them or between their legs
Be in a comfortable position, so you dont have to

Move during this holding
Place one hand on her heart center
Gently place the other hand on her yoni
Gently close your eyes
Go inside of yourself, to your heart
To your stillness

Breathe that into your hands
Let that hands melt into the contours
The curves of the body, whom you are massaging

Stay present, when your mind wanders
Come back to your breath
Hold them, melt into them

Emotions will come and go
Sensations will come & go
Tears may come & go
Laughter may come & go

when it is time your body
will tell you, when it is time,
when it is time, slowly so slowly take
your hands of her body

Cover her sit beside her,
stay present, stay on your heart
stay in love.

Holding is a deep meditation of intimacy
In this quite we release, we feel
In this warmth we become

A gift in the giving, a gift in receiving
Breathe in gratude, in sharing
Breathe the possilibity