I think that some women made a conscious decision while in college and in life to be a certain way , built up walls and defense mechanisms , even comforts that have given them a false security in their survival. They adapted those ways and theybecame a normalcy. But now on a path to find love and give their hearts to another person they still have those defenses up and are guarded. Society and history have given them a false narrative that you don't have to give your best , but you deserve the best of...