It is true life is about ups and downs about happiness and sadness, about Joy's and griefs,satisfaction and regrets and so on...
It is a journey full of shifts from the pass passing by the presents and heading towards the future. HOWEVER,what matters is your abability to reach the balance needed so you can smoothly move on.

THIS balance can't be reached unless you go through some steps.THE most important steps among these is the reconciliation with the past.
MANY people live their lives carrying a real burnen from the past. they even tend to make themselves stuck there,and block their energies standing in their ways to move on.
THEY start asking themselves about "WHYS" and limiting their thinking to "IFS". THEY look as if they're punishing themselves for things that can't be changed. HOWEVER, this is not the objective, since the best thing to do is let go of the past and not waste one's time getting stuck down the negative pile of memories,whys and ifs.
It is only through letting go of the past, one can lead to a happier fulfilling life. From my point of view, I can admit that everyone has made bad decisions in their life,has offended someone else or said things out of anger or even acted out of frustration.
THESE are bad things that should be left in the past. No one is proud of their bad decisions or want to repeat any of them.

FOR this reason you should not stay blocked or feel scary of escaping the past,but rather confront that past and accept it as it was.you should bear in mind that every little thing from the past has sharpened you in the person you are today. It is important to remember when looking back into the past, that there are things no one can change but at the same time, everyone should learn to accept them and move on and because of them you are who you are at this moment.

© Annastacia smith