Humans complicate life.

Let's talk about relationships and its rarity of a real original love.

The reality of even committing yourself to someone is showing a dependent feeling towards that person.

You than rely on them for comfort and happiness and just unconsciously desires.

We than give them the resources and the reason of importance.

People will value only what's important to them. For example the poor value just the fact of having a home.

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The rich value that which they pay much for.

The higher the cost. The more value it has.

So the more you depend on a single person you give them value.

And without them.

people begin to fall apart as their reason of "happiness" has now left.

Depression then begins to set in.
So now you spend your time hurting over someone that was never promised.

This is the mistake...