Be careful who you pour into some may not want the words of God but there some unwilling people out this world sometimes the group you poured into say lot about your emotional view points you may not ever get the outcome you expect especially if you are expect a change from a group that is Unwilling God guides you to the right group the ones who need hear you.Pray to God because You have to know that God wants what is best for you you may think that the group you preaching to are going to listen but think about this way unwilling people only listen when you are saying what they want to hear.But when it something they dont want to hear they dont care to hear...