Never see people based on how you want or expect them to be, or how you imagine them to be, or based on your feelings for them.See them as they show themselves to you,the way they behave,the way they conduct themselves,the way they speak to you, reply to you and the most important thing is that people are only worth of your time and value if they are on the same page with you.If the equilibrium is constant. If the action is equal and opposite.
Because some times we build up our own version of people and assume them to be the same, so in our denial we never understand their real personality and start seeing them as one we once built up in our head.
So,start seeing people for who they really are,not for who they aren't actually.
© sanara