An action, that others having a hardtime to do,
Rather to say it to a person directly they always choose to say it to others so that others will say it to that person.

Buy doing it.
You do 2 things to that person.
One is hurting them by backstabbing
Two humiliating them to other people.

Was it right?
Its always better to be frankful or truthful for that person to know right away what they need to do or change.

But why is it hard for others to do...