Comparison........kya mtlb hota hai iska....
kyu bna hai ye shbd "comparison"....agr hindi mein arth nikaale to "Tulna" ....am I ryt?....yes...
To kyu hme tulna k yogya I mean tulna k jaise banna hai....
jabki sbko to "Atulniya " banna chahiye naa.....
Aakhir kyu krte hai hm comparison....
kyu soch lete hai ki jo wo hai wo hum bhi hoge ya hona hi hai....
Wo to aap se alag h na ....to aap bhi raho..... twinning krni jaruri hai.....
Bachpan se sikhaya jata ha Gandhi bano,Ram bano,Sita bano,....ya phir unke bachhe ki tarah bano.......
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Kya chahte hai sab doctor , engineering hi ho jaaye....
Ni possible hai.....
Agr doctor actor ho jaaye ye actor doctor to sochiye kya hoga.....
Ni soch sakte naaa....to hm b to wahi follow kar rahe hai .....
kyu ni sochte ki hum b to kuch hai....
khud mein bhi to koi khoobi hogi jarur...
Koi talent to bhgwaan hme b diya hoga.....
Ab bhgwaan ne to ghoos nahi khaayi hogi naaa😀.....
Aap dusre ki sun kr niraash ho jate ho ki wo ye bn gya, usko ye mil gya ....aree yaar chodo usko mila hai tmko nahi wo bna hai tum nai....
Tum "tum" hi bn jao or kuch kar jao ye hi kaamyaabi hai.....
Or agr apka comptitor fail ho jaaye to lgta hai aapne duniyaa jeet li hnaa.....
But ye wrong isse aap wo insaan bn jaate ho jo apko ni banna hai...."jealousy" kyu hoti hai aapko....
I am giving u one example- Agr aapka boyfrnd apke sath kahi gya jhaan aapse achi ladkiyaan hai then suddt u feel uncomfortable & this uncomfortableness converts into jealousy ......it is 100%ryt but why bs isi liye kykui wo aapse jyada sundar hai ....to kya hua kmsekm aapko apne boyfriend ko chehck krne ka mauka to mila ye b to soch sakti ho na aap...mgar nahi kyki apko to compare krna hai wo apne se .......
It is called comparison....
Socho ....hmesa apni tareef kro ab jhuti nahi mgr kro khud ko acha bnao jo tm hona chahte ho....dusra kya kr rha it's not your business.....
Agr koi kahe ki uski tarah bano to kho Kyu mai khud k liye kaafi hu....
Meri Life hai to choice bhi meri hi hogi.......
Soo.......kabhi kisi ki tarah na bano kykui aap khud ko kho doge ....jo aap ho.....
"Ki na dekho kisi ko
Khudko thoda waqt dene do
Ki tum jo ho wo bn jao
Khud hi na khudko khone do"
So don't compare urself from others....
........Thank you
From-Palak.