Few months I got some knowledge that added value to myself.
Not all friends are friends, I would have started with " oh know the kind of friends you make " but that's not a knew statement. Now is not about having friends but those your friends are they really doing the work of a friend? Our friends can easily be our enemy, then someone will ask you "what he/she did" Then you will be like "someone told me he/she revealed my secret, he/she gossiped about me and so on, but remember you have been with this person for a long time no issues,just in a day he/she became an enemy.
Anyways if I start going into details I might write a voluminous book about friendship but that's by the way.
Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up, to achieve greatness, friends that can correct you at all times, few days ago I asked a friend " why are you putting on such a transparent cloth? I could see what she was wearing inside then she turned and said "can't you mind your business " lol, I was shocked. I said in my heart if I mind my business then why are we friends? Those you call friends are they really your friend?
Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” If you go looking for a friend, you’re going to find they’re very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere.
For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone
And I live this with you tonight, Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.