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DEAD LOVE REVIVED
DEAD LOVE REVIVED
As he stood beside her bed, what he regretted the most was the love he couldn't give her. The moments they spent together were moments of misery only. It took series of troubles before he realized his mistakes. He only understood those moments they argued as moments of love. This emanated from nothing but an erroneous perception he had about love. He had the perception that inflicting pain on a woman is a way of showing your true affection. Showing too much care and compassion is a sign of weakness on the side of a man. Some women only feel the love of their husbands when they are beaten and maltreated by them. A man must exercise his authority over a woman.
Shout at her when she makes any mistakes. Beat her up when she offends you. Insult her when she fails to take care of the children.
These were his perfect understanding of true love. And these he had perfectly executed in his marriage. He will sit in the dining room comfortably and wait for his food. The woman will take care of all the responsibilities in the house like an old folktale told to children" a farmer goes to farm with the wife, the wife carried a heavy load with the baby at her back, the farmer only followed with a cutlass in his hand"
A true demonstration of mascularity over feminist. This problem could neither be blamed on a man or a woman. Whereas some women feel their husbands are weak and soft others feel their husbands are harsh and strict. Women who feel their husbands are soft always want to exercise control over them. Show them too much love and care and always try to reason with them. Be sober and advise them instead of being harsh they will take your leniency to be your weakness. Some women love men who are harsh and strict. They believe a man has to prove his worth. They enjoy the pain inflicted on them by these men. They see it as an extreme expression of love.
This has been the love affair in his marriage. He took her hand and brought her out of the bed. She blushed and looked at him shyly
What could he do to bring back the smiles to her face?
He will help her to prepare the meals.
He will assist her to take care of the children. He will help her to wash the clothes.That doesn't make him a woman.That is the greatest love a husband could give to his wife. Written by Anthony Amoah Essah