Experiences make you what you are today. Everyone of us had dealt with awful, maybe painful situations and now at present if we behave in a very rude way so that's the outcome of that experience.Suppose a child who is really introvert and was always taught to not to talk back even if she is right, or taught to respect elders even in return they do not respect her, the entire childhood she went through lot , lots of heartbreaks but she never spoke out of fear, she never took stand because she thought to talk back to elders would be really bad, when she grew up she now knew why she has become extremely introvert and shy not able to face the world. She slowly understood that was because of her learnings, she learnt in her childhood and now not to get hurt again she speak her heart out, she has become cold, heartless and a little thing triggers her, she gets offended by little things and this is really making her relationships bad, but she can't help it because of her past experiences. Yes, I know she is not right, reacting very quickly is not good, but she can't help , this situation is also taking toll on her mental health.

But as our reactions are the outcome of our experiences then the child who suffered real bad from the people, aren't the people were also the sufferers of some other people. The only thing we can do here is to forgive everyone, because we know they are the sufferers too, so why can't we forgive them, yes I know it's not easy to forgive but this is the only tool we can use to be peace in our lives and happy at our hearts. Forgiveness is the real wisdom. Its the synonym for freedom that sets your heart, mind free of pain and suffering, not forgetting the harm someone did to you is not letting yourself live peacefully. So Forgive😌

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