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Love Turned Poison: Breaking Free from Toxic Family Patterns*
*Love Turned Poison: Breaking Free from Toxic Family Patterns*

I'm compelled to confront the devastating reality of families torn apart by our own selfish actions. The excruciating pain we inflict on loved ones can leave irreparable scars.

When we're hurt by someone we love, it's easy to point fingers. But let's be honest – our own behavior can be just as toxic. We must confront the harm we've caused and take responsibility for our actions.

We can't keep shifting blame and expecting others to change. Our own cruelty, indifference, and neglect are destroying the people we claim to love. It's time to face the ugly truth and make amends.


Our words and actions have the power to annihilate a person's sense of self-worth. We're crushing the spirits of those around us, and it must stop. We owe it to ourselves and our loved ones to confront our own flaws and work towards healing.

The longer we deny our culpability, the more damage we'll inflict. It's time to acknowledge our role in this toxic cycle and make a conscious effort to change. We owe it to those who are suffering because of us."

Bongekile Ntuli (Bongi)
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