I have been thinking that sometimes conflicts between ppl happen bcs they r scared that they will be judjed by the other person and don't feel safe
Maybe they don't know if if they r themselves in front of the other person r they gonna be accepted and maybe that's the reason abt their toxic attitude
According to me the 2 sides have to do an effort and to try understanding each other and making each other feel safe and like they can be themselves and open up without being judjed
When the fear of being judjed is eliminated and the safe feeling appears then everything in the relationships of the ppl will get better so if ur in a toxic relationship right now(doesnt need to be romantic) u can think abt what I said
I don't mean to be insolent I just want to do good things🥺