For the longest time I've been trying to elucidate that one does not become a good person overnight, your character is forged, altered and moulded from the hand of cards you were dealt with, the decisions you've made and the things you hold dear. You dont become dexterous overnight. You dont become a good cook overnight, you dont learn spices and cuisine from surplus, you learn it in the times you had nothing else but to create something exquisite out of little. You dont learn to forgive overnight, you have to undergo lessons of betrayal, passing blame, own vindictiveness and deep seated pain. You don't become kind overnight, you have to be in a position of vulnerability, nothingness and disappointment in order to never make another person feel that way. You don't learn detachment overnight, you have to battle with attachment before you realise that it's not healthy to attach/leech on someone till...