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love marriage or arranged marriage
One day...
20yrs girl sweety asking her mother ...

Sweety: Mom love marriage is good or arranged marriage is good....???

Mom got little smile on her face and thinking why she got this doubt and how to explain her....
Then mom started saying like ......

Mom : Love.. you can find in love marriage and arranged marriage... but finding correct love/affection in life is important.

sweety: Hoo is it ??? how mom...

Mom:
In love marriage love will come first after marriage happens, in arranged marriage after marriage love will generate it is stronger than love marriage love...

Sweety: how it will be stronger mom

Mom:
Arranged marriage love will generate with respecting eachother, it will get stronger by family relation.

Sweety: Mom finally what u say... ??

Mom: I feel arranged marriages are best than love marriages...(All love/arranged marriages are not successful, it depends on individuals)
But in arranged marriage every parent will search girl/boy with so many views i.e is that person fit for us, family background, person behaviour, respect towards marriage, person future plans..etc

Sweety: Is it mom! will you see these many things before arranged marriage!.. that's quite good thing.
Mom can I ask you one more thing!!

Mom: Ya why not tell me.. what you wanted to know...

Sweety: Mom your's is love/arranged ??

Mom got little smile on her face and said as...👇

Mom: Mine is love marriage...(Mom got tears in her eyes)..

Swety: what !!! Is it... then y ur not supporting that...

Mom: Because I know what ur father lost for getting marriage to me, due to this marriage he is not able to get settled properly, I know how much we have struggled to get proper family support... so, I don't wanted to support that for u...

(Tears are trolling in mom's eyes, sweety understood the pain and consoles mom)


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