Life is indifferent. It doesn't care who you are, where you are or what you are. Life is life, its not good or bad, its our blank canvas. All the challenges, misfortunes, tragedies, obstacles (in every form you can possibly imagine) are due to the actions, decisions, ideals, and beliefs of you and others in your life. Neither God, fate, destiny or life has it out for you. Your life worth living is within your grasp, ya just gatta reach out and take it. Do everything in your amazing power to thwart drama and negativity, all this useless bullshit that is honestly irrelevant in the bigger picture. Your big picture. When you lay your head down at night ask yourself "Was I the best version of me today, did I handle my Life and outside influence with kindness, grace, love, positivity and intelligence?" If your true to heart honest answer was yes, then sleep sound, but if not then you like I need to make some changes..  Life will be what it's molded to be, from the most infinitesimal of decisions/choices to the most monumental life changing one's. It will inevitably all come down to how you handle situations as well as how you allowed others to affect you with their decisions. Live for you first, then close second, the ones you love. Be the flower that grows in the thickest of forests and stands proud against all odds... Be happy, love hard, laugh often, spread kindness and joy.. Mold your life to ensure you succeed. Your the only one that has the power to make your life better, so do it. Take a deep breath and smile, its a beautiful day for change, and your already on your way..