The matter of love cannot really be defined. It is a matter of feeling that no one can be loved from the heart just by wanting to be in a hurry, and no one can be hated from the heart by being in a hurry. It's a completely God-given thing.

But is this love not created?
Why not creation? Creation must exist. Lots of dreams, desires and aspirations to be stored in our minds by rushing to see someone for the first time, or spending hours in cell phone conversations, or modifying someone's special qualities. And then fascination is created.

Only when this special thing of fascination falls on a particular person does our passion for that person work. He likes it. Listening to him, I think I will listen for a while more, if I stay with him, I will not stay for a while. He wants to sacrifice himself for that man.

And when a very good relationship is formed with that person or when the desire becomes realistic, a feeling of extra caring naturally arises in him. Then comes the question of rights and non-rights. It is not uncommon for a person to have an affair with a loved one, sometimes in a way that is difficult to deal with. It is not uncommon for such a relationship to become estranged from the small things of the loved one.

During this time, if you miss him or think about him again and again, you have unknowingly fallen in love with him. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.

And during these many times when you find yourself entangled in another person's relationship, or at that time if you rush to remember your first love for no reason, then you must understand that you fell in love with your first love from the heart. And still love him, will wait for him in the future. Even if you don't want to, your love for him will remain intact. You can't erase his memory from your mind even if you want to.

Because the human brain is a thing where there is no option to say delete. It's probably a permanent memory.