Tips for the male online daters

Sometimes I wish I had someone in my life, but to find someone, you first must kiss a lot of frogs...
so to speak. And believe me, I have! In today's world, the way to date is online dating, a truly scary thing to do.

I know that I am not going to find Mr. Perfect for me knocking at my door, so that means that I will keep trying online dating.
But I have some tips for all of the guys out there that are also new to this dating scene, very important tips from a women's point of view. Now, please don't come at me with what women should do, I think this could be universal tips for all. I don't see women's profiles, so I can only speak about the men's profiles that I see.

1. Put up a picture.
In my experience, guys without pictures in this day and age are either married or catfish.

2. Put up more than one picture and a full body picture.
Yes, you can look really good in one picture, the right angle, the right light, but in others, you look like a completely different person. You need a body shot. Sorry, everyone has a type. I like in shape guys, you don't have to be Mr. Universe, but you have to be able to see your toes. I am active, and I want an active guy.

3. I don't need to see pictures of what you looked like 30 years ago.
Yes, you were a football star in high school. You're not anymore. We all looked better then, so let it go.

4. I don't want to see all the pictures of your animals.
Look, if you happen to have a great picture of yourself holding your dog, fine, but ten pictures of your dog, not so much, I am not dating your dog.

5. I am not interested in what you have.
There is no need to put up pictures of your motorcycle, boat, big house, or fancy car, not impressed, been there done that. Money definitely does not make a man. (And then you have the nerve to call us gold diggers!)

6. Don't lie about what you like and don't like.
We eventually will meet and talk, and you can't keep up lies, and why would you want to? Be you.

7. Catfishing...what is with that?
Why pretend to be someone you're not, for what reason? Get a life and stop messing with others.

8. Don't say you want a relationship.
When all through your profile, you're talking about clubbing and sex. Just be real if you're just looking to hook up. Just say it!

9. Be specific in what you want.
Do you want kids, what's your deal breakers, smoking, etc.. skinny, chunky, tall, or short, so we know what you're looking for and not waste time.

10. Say something about yourself.
Talk about your likes, hobbies, what you're looking for. Men with a blank profile to me are like blank men, boring. I know it's not easy talking about yourself, so ask a friend to help you. While you're at it, ask them to take pictures of you too!

Maybe my male readers will give me some tips on how we women can make our profiles better because I am always open to change.

So today, my friends, it's a new world out there. We must adapt to changing times, and to do so, we must be open to change.
So be the change you want to see.
@TreadmillTreats


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