In intimacy, its more than just physical aspects, it’s a process of placing / sharing rhythmic touch & kisses as sensations thru human senses to elevate the minds into a sensory bliss enhancing every moment’s pleasures into a spiritual blessing.

Female’s biology & psychology do not imitate as males do.
The male’s efforts are to secret their desire with their ejaculation, while the females from their perception of desire to ignite all the sensory receptors, that are spread all over their body and carve to attain a certain kind of pleasure depending on their attitude & openness, (that’s why male has to perform giving more with their vitality, while woman has to be a receiver due the placement of sensors)
That fills them not just with pleasure, but an alertness & satisfaction towards their body & beauty.

But most woman are tangled, shy or tangled (due to cultural & sociological restrictions) to express what kind of pleasure they feel or want. Or to tell or guide how & when to touch/kiss, what should be the intensity, motion & promptness to perform and most men get self-absorbed about their own feelings or just an act of self-indulgence feel intimacy is just a social obligation towards family.

Could be the reason why most intimacy finds only males when engaged in coition to satisfy themselves after emission and ignore further or to see if she was able achieve what she yearned to make her feel comfortable & valued for her presence to happen the intimacy, due to cause of exhaustion or ignorance. Which ultimately make the performed intimacy as incomplete.

© augustin