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Love and Intentions
If you ask me , I'd say love is an emotion. To me, it is just an emotion that you feel towards someone or something. There are constituent responsible for this emotion backstage. To love, you must care, genuinely like, feel ,crave, want, spend on, provide for, make time for, sacrifice, tolerate, accept, ignore, understand, forgive, sometimes forget, be ready to be the bigger person, initiate moves, move on , et cetera.
It takes all these and many more to show and prove your love.People carelessly use the word "love", and most times they do not really mean it and they do not feel it. People should normalize using other phrases like; I like you, I care for you, I'll help you, I want you, without necessarily involving love , especially if they do not understand what it takes and what it means. Love is a deep emotion , love is not just anything.
On the other, I suck at love. According to research , philophobia is the fear of love. Fear so intense that people who suffer from this find it so difficult to love. I think that's my own fear, that is asides from my fear of heights and deep waters, lol. I want that to change though, I want to fall helplessly in love (haha, I don't quite agree with that , helplessly in love sounds….uncanny and sick). I do not know what triggered my philophobia, I used to love like crazy and I used the word so much , I could have bagged awards. Okay, I lied, I know what triggered it lol, maybe I am made for foreign boys , normally I'm foreign baby .
Nonetheless, that doesn't mean I do not want to love and be lovedI want to love, I'm just too tired to put in the work. There's the boy(s) , but not the energy to love. I'm such a "That's my baby, that's where my heart's at" girl , without even trying at all. I know I feel like I need therapy to correct some of the fallacious opinions I have up there in my head, but I don't. I don't need therapy , I just need to be blown off my feet and blown by the breeze that will throw me into the land of love and fantasies , real fantasies.Storyline is that , we all need a soul to rely on and a shoulder to cry on .
Nobody is forever an hard guy. Lowkey everybody soft, we all want that soft life and we can get it if we put in some efforts. But for now, be intentional about your I love you or don't use them at all.
Love,
The Love of your Life.
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It takes all these and many more to show and prove your love.People carelessly use the word "love", and most times they do not really mean it and they do not feel it. People should normalize using other phrases like; I like you, I care for you, I'll help you, I want you, without necessarily involving love , especially if they do not understand what it takes and what it means. Love is a deep emotion , love is not just anything.
On the other, I suck at love. According to research , philophobia is the fear of love. Fear so intense that people who suffer from this find it so difficult to love. I think that's my own fear, that is asides from my fear of heights and deep waters, lol. I want that to change though, I want to fall helplessly in love (haha, I don't quite agree with that , helplessly in love sounds….uncanny and sick). I do not know what triggered my philophobia, I used to love like crazy and I used the word so much , I could have bagged awards. Okay, I lied, I know what triggered it lol, maybe I am made for foreign boys , normally I'm foreign baby .
Nonetheless, that doesn't mean I do not want to love and be lovedI want to love, I'm just too tired to put in the work. There's the boy(s) , but not the energy to love. I'm such a "That's my baby, that's where my heart's at" girl , without even trying at all. I know I feel like I need therapy to correct some of the fallacious opinions I have up there in my head, but I don't. I don't need therapy , I just need to be blown off my feet and blown by the breeze that will throw me into the land of love and fantasies , real fantasies.Storyline is that , we all need a soul to rely on and a shoulder to cry on .
Nobody is forever an hard guy. Lowkey everybody soft, we all want that soft life and we can get it if we put in some efforts. But for now, be intentional about your I love you or don't use them at all.
Love,
The Love of your Life.
© All Rights Reserved
