I have long observed an interesting pattern in human behaviour- when you start talking about yourself, your personal growth, and share your successes, the response is not as expected. But when you share your struggles and challenges, the support is overwhelming. It is like people are more drawn to your weaknesses than your strengths.

I wonder if it is genuine support or a way to control your life. Are they helping you or trying to hold on to you? I think it is unfair to live a life that is not yours, even if you sought help in a moment of distress.

They love to see a person falling into the grand canyon of despair, helpless and powerless, with no other option but to seek their help and give them the license to control their life.

Sometimes it's better to carry a boulder in your heart than to surrender to a debt that will shackle your freedom.

© Nibiran Saikia

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