Another cute ,interesting and inspiring conversation between mother and her daughter..😊....let's start..!!
(Maa-Mother)
Girl:-Maa..can I ask a question..?
Maa:-Yeah Baby..!!..Ask me whatever you wanna ask..
Girl:-Don't you miss your parents,home..Maa..?
What's the thing that made you strong like this..?...You know Maa...I'm not that strong..I will not be able to leave you all...😟
Maa:-Oh my Baby..why are you thinking like this..Yeah that's right.. I'm just away from my home and parents it doesn't mean I left them..☺...
Girl:- Still Maa..how you made yourself to be fit into this new environment,place...and you don't even know how they will treat you..you don't know their lifestyle...it is just new world for you...you know nothing about them..how did you do that...???
Maa:-Ohh god..how many questions are running in this little brain of yours...OK let me explain this scenario to you clearly and deeply..
Girl:-OK Maa...I'm all ears..tell me about it..!!
Maa:-Listen Baby..I love your dad and he loves me so much too...And marriage is that thing which makes this beautiful bond even more stronger...so we decided to get married..and one fine day we got married with our parents blessings..
Girl:-Wait wait...it's not the answer to my question maa...why are you telling all these..😕
Maa:-If you give chance... I'll give my answer..meri maa...let me speak..😑
Girl:-OK...I won't interrupt...🙊...continue Maa..😅
Maa:-Hmm..see marriage is a thing that makes not only two persons together..it makes two families together...and both the persons should accept and love each others families in the same way as they love and accept each other..
Girl:-Can I ask something..don't mind I'm asking...😅😅...everything you said is OK..but..you don't even know them..how did you manage all these..
Maa:-Yeah...you are right..I know nothing about them ...I used to fear a lot..how they will treat me..how can I leave my parents suddenly...at some point..I thought to give up..but I didn't..because of the love and acceptance they showered towards me...And then I realized that we should see a point from both the sides..
Girl:-Both sides..🤔..I didn't get it Maa..
Maa:-See a girl is not only the one..who fears about her life after marriage...a boy fears a lot too...he thinks how she will fit into my family...will she accept us as the way we are..will I be able to treat her better..without making her miss her family..and same goes with his family...they will think we should treat her better...and make her comfortable in this new family..🤗
Girl:-Ohh..what is your experience after marriage..?
Maa:-Without any doubts in my mind...only with the love and trust I entered into your Dad's life...See if you want them to treat you as their own daughter...first you should treat them as your parents...it is as simple as that...
Girl:-Ohh...OK didn't you guys have any conflicts...don't grandparents scold you...don't you feel...??
Maa:-Let me ask you something...don't you feel when I scold you...??
Girl:-Yeah..I do feel Maa...but afterwards I'll realize that it's for my good...😉
Maa:-Same goes with my case..if you can take the scoldings of your parents....then why not your in-laws..they say things just to see their children to live and lead a happy life...that's it...if we complicate things..they will get even more worse..Elders have the right to say when we are going in wrong direction..
Girl:-I understood Maa...but why only girls have to leave their family and home...why not boys..???
Maa:-May be they are not as strong as girls..😜...and we should feel lucky baby..we have two homes to live ...and we will get two mothers and two fathers...😎..what do you say..?
Girl:-Yeah...Maa...😁...double dhamaka.....😎...!!...and poor boys they have to live in same house during their entire life..😆...And Thank you my ANGEL for making me realize we should think in both the ways..😊...I LOVE YOU Maa..❤..
Maa:-I LOVE YOU TOO my baby..❤🤗..

(Conversation ends here..😊)

Everything has its own pros and cons...if we see the things only in one way..we will get struck there itself....and when we start to see the things in both the ways...everything appears clear...and we will be able to move on...So see the things in BOTH THE WAYS.....and lead a happy and peaceful life...😊
That's it...!!!
Adios..👋..!!!

© Ch.Manasa