“You know, there are a million fine-lookin’ women in the world dude. But they don’t all bring you lasagne at work. Most of ’em just cheat on you.”

Clerks

Introduction/Disclaimer

I am not a dating expert. I am also not an expert on women, despite living with three women growing up.

If you looking to get laid: first of all, why are you reading this? Secondly, just go on tinder or something. I’m not a guru or pick-up artist. Fuck those guys. Actually…that might like that.
But what I learned has made me a better person. These are not to be taken as gospel. just things that I’ve gathered or learned over the years.

We are all Insane

“There is no standard normal. Normal is subjective. There are seven billion versions of normal on this planet.”

Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

Everyone has quirks. We, humans, have called ourselves various things, hunters and gathers, thinkers, and wanderers. But I got a better one: Rational monkeys who discovered that it wasn’t a good idea to throw poo at each other.

But we have flaws. It’s the common mindset to keep them to yourself. But that’s not healthy. I’m guilty of it too. We all are. I believe if become more honest with ourselves and realize our flaws, we will become better.

It’s not that complicated (usually)

“I know the pieces fit ’cause I watched them tumble down.
No fault, none to blame, it doesn’t mean I don’t desire.
To point the finger, blame the other, and watch the temple topple over.
To...