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Understanding people
Understanding people?
It can be identified as one of the hardest things in the world. We the human beings are different from one another and we need to have a proper understanding about each other when we associate people. We judge people by their appearances. "DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER" That's what our parents have taught us when we were young. Remember, "DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY READING IT'S FIRST TWO OR THEREE CHAPTERS. " We will never be able to see what is going on there inside. The time and experience  is something that really matter in understanding people. If I give an example, there was this lady who wore sunglasses even when it was raining. She lived in our apartment. She rarely spoke with others. Wore tight jeans and skinny blouses and wore a huge amount of makeup. She looked pretty but no body liked her cause everyone had the idea or the same concept that she was someone arrogant. People hated her for no reason. People judged her because of her personality. I met this woman when I was there in the garden. She was walking by and I went to her and greeted " Good Morning mam". She looked at me. There was no smile or happiness to be found in her face. I was unable to see her eyes because of the sunglasses. I was a bit afraid. She then stood facing me and got a piece of paper and wrote something and gave it to me. I was afraid but I took it and ran to my house. Well, can you guess what was written there? It was "Every morning makes my day worse. I prefer black. Don't say good morning to me. I find no good there. " I was shocked at first and then thought she is weird, until I got to know from my grandmother that that lady had a disease which made her unable to look at the sunshine that it gives her a huge pain and also she was unable to speak. We can't judge someone by their  appearances or personalities. Try to be more sympathetic to others and talk with them. Words have the power to give peace for the soul. Be kind and good everytime. Try to understand people.

© @Paro