I have come to the conclusion. Relationships are stupid. What is the point in having or giving butterflies to someone? Why make someone fall for you, when in the end you or that someone gets hurt? Why tell someone you love them? If your not going to keep loving them? Why tell someone that they are worth it, when you don't act like they are worth it? Did you know that a woman leaves mentally before she does physically? You start to see the changes she makes, like how she no longer whispers how much she loves you at night. How she no longer takes her time to do her hair and makeup for you. Believe me its for her as well, but when she's not appreciated at home, why would she do it for you to appreciate? How she no longer sings in the car when you go places, even though she loves music and loves to sing. How she no longer argues back or just leaves things be because there is no point anymore. How your attention is found else where, instead of on her. Relationships are full of ups and downs by obvious means. But when your focus no longer becomes her? Her focus no longer becomes you. She starts to focus on things that make her happy again. She starts to focus on her again instead. She finds her enjoyment else where. Like in books. Music. Games. Pets.
Remeber when reading a book was attractive? Now it just bugs men. "You're not paying attention to me? All you do is read!" When we can't get your attention, what else should we do? Try harder? Why try harder when you've worked your ass off to get it in the first place? Relationships are complicated. Love is more complicated.
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