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WEAKNESSES
Weaknesses, no one wants to talk about them, and if someone genuinely shares it with other person, just to let them know, that how they fear doing that particular thing, the next thought in their mind is ,What if ,this person uses it against me? That sudden rush of blood and increase in heartbeat with that. Why do we always want to hide them?

Maybe, because talking about our weaknesses is the strongest thing one can actually do.

Only we know the road we have walked on . What made us weak in that area, only we know. What do we really need is a little support , like someone for just once directly look into our eyes and say that We will get through it , no matter what, I’ll be there by your side. But instead what we get is, people saying us “You have to get through it , or things will get difficult for you”.
Yes , exactly, when they say this, it hit like a knife on our already struggling self.
Why can’t we just listen, and try to understand what a person is already going through, and help them to overcome it.

Why will we do this? Instead , we will take advantage of that thing and, BHOOM , leaving that person in a dilemma, self doubt . We walk away , like nothing happened, but, what about that person?

Here begins the worsening of that person’s Mental Health. Slowly anxiety hits them, and when it goes unnoticed by them, just because they were busy helping other people and tried to understand others, panic attack start happening. They suddenly go out of breath , in mid conversation, and don’t let anyone know, what is going on with them. Not because , they think, it will make them weak, but because they feel no one really understands them , the way they do.

They seem to be strong and happy and cheer others up, but internally they are struggling , just to wake up everyday, go to that same place everyday and face the same people.

But, they don’t give up, because they know, they are going to get better soon.
But will they trust on anyone else? Will anyone ever understand them the way , they do?

No one knows except them. They keep thinking this, they blame themselves for what is happening with them. And their health keep worsening. One day , they wake up with a heartache and crying , the next they know is , they have to eat Anxiety Pills , with anti-deprassants.

That day onwards , they understand what being a person with good heart means . Why not, using anyone’s weakness against them , just to win cheap ,they understand all of it. They start being more careful in using words. But more than that, they learn what Self – Care means.

But what was there Mistake?
Just sharing their weakness with someone , who thought using it will make them win. But , they don’t know, they are the biggest loser.

Why can’t we be kind to each other? It comes FREE OF COST.
What it gives everyone? HAPPINESS


© Alien
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