"For many years I was jealous of other people's accomplishments or their partner or their success. Until one day I realized that jealousy is a bitter emotion that does nothing to help me create the best life or find me a great partner or be successful in my own right. Who wants to be with someone who has such little self-love and respect that they cut other people down in an attempt to build themselves up? AHA - That was a big wake-up call!"