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HOW TO DEAL WITH BITTER CRITICISM:
As human being you Will have to face criticism in Life,which in its onslaught is like an interminable war;it shows no sign of ending.As long as you shine,give, produce,and have an effect upon others,then disapproval and condemnation will be your lot in life. Until you escape from people by finding a tunnel in the ground or a ladder leading to sky ,they Will not desist from censuring you,from finding foult in your character. For that reason,as long as you are from denizens of earh, expect to be hurt, to be insulted to be criticized. But upon all this here is something you should contemplate; a person who is sitting on the ground does not fall,and people do not kick a dead dog. Therefore their anger toward you
can be attributed to you surpassing them in righteousness, knowledge, manners, wealth good leadership qualities or in their eyes you are a transgressor whose wrongs cannot be atoned for unless you abandon your responsibility, talents and strip yourself of all praise Worthy qualities and dance to their tone so that you become stupid worthless,and to them innocuous. This is exactly what they want for you. So in all circumstances remain firm focus and patient when facing their insults and criticism. If you are wounded by their words and let them have an influence over you, you have realized their hopes to make your life miserable and wretched. forgive them by showing them the most beautiful manners. Turn away from them and do not feel distressed by their schemes. Their criticism Will only improve your worth and merit. Certainly,you Will be able to increase them in their rage by increasing your merits and developing your talents. If you desire to be untrainable. written by Aliyu Labaran -(Aliyu 7683) from Nigeria