One common thing everyone want is happiness.We are always wondering what is the secret of happiness...Some people say luxurious life give happiness.Some people propose minimalism,having less expectation give happiness.Some people say to know the meaning and purpose of life give happiness.How does one lead a happy life ?Its a million dollar question.
Here is a perspective ,during a party some one asked one of the spouse in the audience"Does your husband make you happy?All are eagerly expecting her answer.At the same time her husband is utterly confident about her assertive 'yes'.Because she never complaint about anything.But her wife say 'no,my husband doesnot give happiness.'Her husband baffled.Everyone shocked and listern her speech.She said,my husband is not responsible for my happiness.Iam the only person responsible for my happiness.My husband is an amazing person he did everything to make me happy.When my happiness depend on other people things and circumstance ,it create disappointments.Trust me,i decised to be happy always, regardless whatever happened externally.
Everything is constantly changing in the world.People can change,social economic condition can change ,climate change a lot,sometime bosses change.So nothing is going to be stable.Everyone in the party listened her speech,she continued i decided to be happy whether iam rich or poor,I decide to be happy whether i stayed alone or with my loved ones.I decided to be happy iam married but when i was single i enjoyed a lot.I love my life not because my life is easier than anyone else but because i decided to be happy.
Happiness is our responsiblity never give the control of happiness to other people.Take incharge of your happiness.
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