Today i sorted out one thing. It was a great surprise to me when I discovered the most of the ugliness I saw in others, was but a reflection of my own nature. We always create a scenario in our mind of our own towards judging people situation or any circumstances. We create our own invasion which is an incorrect decision. Thinking for something or someone is not wrong but when we create illusion in our mind is not a correct thing. For example I supposed to take failure as an perishable tool which was making me more weaker and I observed other people i saw they don't let allow it make them weak they learn they try again and they conquer. According to me its weakness of us that we spend so much time deliberately fooling ourselfs by getting things people in incorrect way.
The only solution is to learn, use your brain power not only to observe sort out things in your invasion but also use the other people's invasion which you admire. Findout the difference choose which is better, if you find yours insufficient one so learn from others invasion.