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love the myth of devastation.
she met a man on social media with the the surname: Mr beigh
A man with sweet words and polished toung.
He was a religious man.He used to pray 5 times a day and he was also a haji very impressive as per the details .They started conversation and He gained her trust very quickly . They shared some childhood memories and many other details about the family.
The first question he asked her was what is her mothers cast?
This was a very awkward question but she answered calmly. she was from a Syed family and her mother was out of cast. Although she was aware that his mother was from (Hakeem haram) family but she prefer not to ask such vulgar question.
The second question he asked her was how many cars they have.
Again she replied firmly.
She felt uncomfortable and decided to leave the conversation. He played mind cards grab her attention and motivate her to continue the conversation.
Now he requested her to join him on IMO. she hesitated as she came to know that Imo requires a mobile number. He didn't insist but after few days he requested again. Now she shared her phone number and They started conversation on Imo.
After few days he asked her that he wanna see her.He wished her to share some pics and he shared his pics limitlessly.
she was not ready to share images as she had some doubts because the man was not clear with his words.
He used manipulative words like (You don't trust me. Its ok I am not trustworthy.) He repeated these sentences likewise to gain her trust.
Finally, he gained her trust and she shared her pics with him. Some childhood pic and some memories from school and college. He was showing happy expressions and both were comfortable.
He talked about his family background and other properties and shared his own details as well.
After few days he told her that he is getting married. His family is searching for a match.
she didn't argue or complain.
she replied: Best of luck and
he said no no i am not sure about this.
(not sure about this means he wanna kept her in an option list)
Here He lost the gained trust and she uninstalled IMO. He texted on social media and asked what was the reason for leaving the conversation .she didn't complain or blame. she replied like a stranger.
Although this man was not earning much, his income was low and was not an attractive personality.
but she was ready to accept him with all good and bad. she spends her time and emotions for him.
A month of Ramadan starts and they didn't have any conversation during this month.
After eid, he texted her again with a reply to the previous conversation. Now slowly and gradually this conversation started again and she gave him another chance
But now she can't trust him easily. She didn't share anything with him onwards, Now she was reserved.
she understood that the man is emotionless but she was attracted to him. she started diverting her mind and she left all expectations.
After a month he proposed to her and said let's get married. She got surprised and she thought it's a joke . But he convinced her that he is serious about this.He requested her to send her profile for marriage purposes.
It was hard for her to trust him again. she discussed this with friends and sisters. They insisted that she should share her profile. They thought maybe it's her destiny knocking. and they believe that a religious man .who has performed hajj can't be a player.He also insisted her to send a profile finally she prepare her mind, Gained the courage to trust him again. And she sends him a profile.
He received the profile and said these details are not enough for him. He told her to send all details about her maternal and paternal relatives, uncles and their status and business.
She was shocked to hear this from him .she holds her breath and she talked about this incident with her friends and sisters .They suggested her stop this conversation. This man was not a genuine person because his words and actions both were suspicious.
But she decided to notice his reaction and his next move. She sended him full details about her maternal and paternal relatives and their status, their business and many other questions he asked.
Now after few days he pleaded her to send a matchmaker for him. She replied that it's not her job. It's his responsibility to hire a matchmaker.
But he continuously insists her to send a matchmaker.
lord knows best what his intention was but he was a very controversial personality.
she realised that this man with a beard and a cap is an old player.This man was emotionless and heartless.He was using religion and mesmerising words as a weapon to gain trust.
Finally, she realised that he was playing with her sentiments and emotions. He was intended to put her on the options list.
Finally broke her trust and heart by stabbing with emotional folk.
she left the conversation with a deep sigh.
and she learned love is the myth of devastation.
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A man with sweet words and polished toung.
He was a religious man.He used to pray 5 times a day and he was also a haji very impressive as per the details .They started conversation and He gained her trust very quickly . They shared some childhood memories and many other details about the family.
The first question he asked her was what is her mothers cast?
This was a very awkward question but she answered calmly. she was from a Syed family and her mother was out of cast. Although she was aware that his mother was from (Hakeem haram) family but she prefer not to ask such vulgar question.
The second question he asked her was how many cars they have.
Again she replied firmly.
She felt uncomfortable and decided to leave the conversation. He played mind cards grab her attention and motivate her to continue the conversation.
Now he requested her to join him on IMO. she hesitated as she came to know that Imo requires a mobile number. He didn't insist but after few days he requested again. Now she shared her phone number and They started conversation on Imo.
After few days he asked her that he wanna see her.He wished her to share some pics and he shared his pics limitlessly.
she was not ready to share images as she had some doubts because the man was not clear with his words.
He used manipulative words like (You don't trust me. Its ok I am not trustworthy.) He repeated these sentences likewise to gain her trust.
Finally, he gained her trust and she shared her pics with him. Some childhood pic and some memories from school and college. He was showing happy expressions and both were comfortable.
He talked about his family background and other properties and shared his own details as well.
After few days he told her that he is getting married. His family is searching for a match.
she didn't argue or complain.
she replied: Best of luck and
he said no no i am not sure about this.
(not sure about this means he wanna kept her in an option list)
Here He lost the gained trust and she uninstalled IMO. He texted on social media and asked what was the reason for leaving the conversation .she didn't complain or blame. she replied like a stranger.
Although this man was not earning much, his income was low and was not an attractive personality.
but she was ready to accept him with all good and bad. she spends her time and emotions for him.
A month of Ramadan starts and they didn't have any conversation during this month.
After eid, he texted her again with a reply to the previous conversation. Now slowly and gradually this conversation started again and she gave him another chance
But now she can't trust him easily. She didn't share anything with him onwards, Now she was reserved.
she understood that the man is emotionless but she was attracted to him. she started diverting her mind and she left all expectations.
After a month he proposed to her and said let's get married. She got surprised and she thought it's a joke . But he convinced her that he is serious about this.He requested her to send her profile for marriage purposes.
It was hard for her to trust him again. she discussed this with friends and sisters. They insisted that she should share her profile. They thought maybe it's her destiny knocking. and they believe that a religious man .who has performed hajj can't be a player.He also insisted her to send a profile finally she prepare her mind, Gained the courage to trust him again. And she sends him a profile.
He received the profile and said these details are not enough for him. He told her to send all details about her maternal and paternal relatives, uncles and their status and business.
She was shocked to hear this from him .she holds her breath and she talked about this incident with her friends and sisters .They suggested her stop this conversation. This man was not a genuine person because his words and actions both were suspicious.
But she decided to notice his reaction and his next move. She sended him full details about her maternal and paternal relatives and their status, their business and many other questions he asked.
Now after few days he pleaded her to send a matchmaker for him. She replied that it's not her job. It's his responsibility to hire a matchmaker.
But he continuously insists her to send a matchmaker.
lord knows best what his intention was but he was a very controversial personality.
she realised that this man with a beard and a cap is an old player.This man was emotionless and heartless.He was using religion and mesmerising words as a weapon to gain trust.
Finally, she realised that he was playing with her sentiments and emotions. He was intended to put her on the options list.
Finally broke her trust and heart by stabbing with emotional folk.
she left the conversation with a deep sigh.
and she learned love is the myth of devastation.
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