Many couples use sex as a weapon to punish or control their partner. Sex is food for the soul, its rejuvenating energy. It allows the soul to get connection and reach a higher realm.  It's a pathway to sheer bliss from this physical plain. 

People have very taboo views on sex because someone tainted this spirtual journey for them.  Healing from that hurt, through facing  it non judgementally and forgiveness  of self, helps. Also deciding your abuser has taken enough from you and not allowing an ounce  more.'  Changing this trauma should be a mission. No one should steal your...