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Love and relationships
You can get or give love only as much as a person is ready to receive and give. You can get closer to a person only upto the limit they permit or accept us which explains why we get close to someone in a short span or cannot get close despite our best efforts over a period of time.
I have been through my life and have known that people are skeptical about those who are caring and loving and they doubt their intentions regarding their association and warmth towards them. They do not allow other people into their inner circle and how much ever you do, it is never enough. You have to constantly keep proving your worth to them and at times you return empty from such people.
There are some who are good to you as per their mood swings. One day they make you feel you are everything and important to them and on some days you do not exist. Such people give you hurtful experiences because of which you change for the better or worse.
There are few ways to form beautiful relationship with people by observing certain things
Be who you are. Don't change due to someone's bad or insentive behaviour.
Be patient and kind.
Be forgiving. Forgiveness is something you do to yourself than to the other person.
Have your own life. If you are happy with yourself, people will be happier around you.
Find time to check on people who matter. Sometimes someone just enquiring about you feels happy.
Be thoughtful. Sweet gestures only add to the overall experience in a relationship.
Do not compromise or gratify. You will do more harm to yourself and will open the doors for hurt.
Don't expect and surprise others by surpassing their expectations of you.
If someone consistently hurts or ignores you, keep away .
As a human being we instinctively guard ourselves against hurt or emotional turmoil. But if you are lucky enough you stumble upon someone who will give you the love you deserve.
And I believe, what we deserve always comes to us....sooner or later.
We have to just do our bit to love and care selflessly, without hurting ourself.
© BeingJyotsna♥️
#writcoapp #writco #mythoughts
I have been through my life and have known that people are skeptical about those who are caring and loving and they doubt their intentions regarding their association and warmth towards them. They do not allow other people into their inner circle and how much ever you do, it is never enough. You have to constantly keep proving your worth to them and at times you return empty from such people.
There are some who are good to you as per their mood swings. One day they make you feel you are everything and important to them and on some days you do not exist. Such people give you hurtful experiences because of which you change for the better or worse.
There are few ways to form beautiful relationship with people by observing certain things
Be who you are. Don't change due to someone's bad or insentive behaviour.
Be patient and kind.
Be forgiving. Forgiveness is something you do to yourself than to the other person.
Have your own life. If you are happy with yourself, people will be happier around you.
Find time to check on people who matter. Sometimes someone just enquiring about you feels happy.
Be thoughtful. Sweet gestures only add to the overall experience in a relationship.
Do not compromise or gratify. You will do more harm to yourself and will open the doors for hurt.
Don't expect and surprise others by surpassing their expectations of you.
If someone consistently hurts or ignores you, keep away .
As a human being we instinctively guard ourselves against hurt or emotional turmoil. But if you are lucky enough you stumble upon someone who will give you the love you deserve.
And I believe, what we deserve always comes to us....sooner or later.
We have to just do our bit to love and care selflessly, without hurting ourself.
© BeingJyotsna♥️
#writcoapp #writco #mythoughts
