We all are trained for judgements..
Everyone of us...
Right from childhood to the late oldage we judge someone maybe unknowingly at times.
Remember back in childhood when someone in class had a
"Good Looking Compas Box" that guy/girl was always thought to be some prince/princess .
Then we grew up a bit..Now the one with some good (costly to be specific) Pen was thought to be rich.
Then in Highschool some cool clothes were matter of judgements.. Later the salary...the grown ups have their own points to judge or think of someone..
Well this is what an indivisual thinks..
The society has it's own way. Looks, Bodysizes, Grades,Salaries,How big the house is and what not..
Well thinking this is normal for us...but we never know.. may be the guy with compass box cried a lot for it..may be his parents could not afford it but still bought just for his happiness may be he was not you thought..
May the one with costly pen had traded it for some pens..which everyone had.. may be ... he was not at all rich but a bit smart than everyone who thought he was rich.
The marks the society judged you about..that was just a phase you knew.
The salary you judged someone about.. he might have struggled all his life with it..
Everyone has different situations..thoughts..way of thinking ...
How are we supposed to think of someone or even expect someone to be of sort just because we think it is good . The person you woke up today was not the same yesterday..
Life has a refresh button for every moment.
But our judgemental minds have set us back to the oldest versions of our ownsleves.
Long story short if you think someone is not good at something thats what you think.. the person working on that thing might have different opinions..
Try clearing the mess that your mind creates or its taking us even more away from the new us which was supposed to be living by now .



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