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Yours, Bitter Wife!
Ya,
It was a shock to me too!
She said alot of words in there, alot of cursing words, Haaa for a minute I wondered where could the World be by now if her words were ocean of fire!
She was so bitter!
With my background in psychology, for a moment I thought of responding to her, but then, "You know better" the voice whispered!
And it's true, I do, as Maya Angelou said, "Once you know better, you do better" so did I, I chose to do better.
But what shocked me in all these was the amount of anger this woman poured! It fell on me and I begun to understand why women died more than men with stress related causes!
How much did she really love herself? Did she even know the meaning of self love to begin with? Cause there is no amount of external push that is powerful enough to make a mentally stable human say such words.
Dr. Wayne Dyer put it right "No matter how bad life is, no matter how angry people are to you, no matter how much negativity you face in life and feel unworthy of, there is no justifiable resentments".
That alone made me see why her husband would gladly get another woman out there, she was intense!
Well, so she said, am taking her man, Hahaa the thought of it makes me smile all the time. I know you are curious to know wether its true or not, right? Hahaa, let me ask you, how can one be taken?
So she was so angry! I was just quite seeing million of words in texts flowing in my phone, lots of missed calls 😄 crazy!
But it taught me some few lessons, apart from don't take someone's man 😄, this is what it taught me:
1. Self love - love yourself so much that you can not stand to harm yourself in anyway even being angry. Anger harms you not the other way round.
2. Trust - Trust yourself so much that you have no time to doubt your partner for hurting you, cause if you have it all, why worry? They loose you not the other way round.
3. Find a character and BECOME IT!
I will explain on this, by character I don't mean Movies, no, I simply mean what makes you, YOU? When people hear your name or see your picture, what do they relate you to? Are you short tempered? Crazy? Simple? Patient? Happy? Relaxed?
As a wife, husband, sister, brother, son, daughter, parent, aunty, uncle, grannies... what character defines you? Nag? Humble? Loving? Stingy? Etc
People will treat you with regard to that character that identifies you, so be wise and choose wisely, what do people say you are?
This bitter wife was bitter, and it just makes sense, why would this man choose to live in bitterness?
With Love!
@RehemaImoryTz
It was a shock to me too!
She said alot of words in there, alot of cursing words, Haaa for a minute I wondered where could the World be by now if her words were ocean of fire!
She was so bitter!
With my background in psychology, for a moment I thought of responding to her, but then, "You know better" the voice whispered!
And it's true, I do, as Maya Angelou said, "Once you know better, you do better" so did I, I chose to do better.
But what shocked me in all these was the amount of anger this woman poured! It fell on me and I begun to understand why women died more than men with stress related causes!
How much did she really love herself? Did she even know the meaning of self love to begin with? Cause there is no amount of external push that is powerful enough to make a mentally stable human say such words.
Dr. Wayne Dyer put it right "No matter how bad life is, no matter how angry people are to you, no matter how much negativity you face in life and feel unworthy of, there is no justifiable resentments".
That alone made me see why her husband would gladly get another woman out there, she was intense!
Well, so she said, am taking her man, Hahaa the thought of it makes me smile all the time. I know you are curious to know wether its true or not, right? Hahaa, let me ask you, how can one be taken?
So she was so angry! I was just quite seeing million of words in texts flowing in my phone, lots of missed calls 😄 crazy!
But it taught me some few lessons, apart from don't take someone's man 😄, this is what it taught me:
1. Self love - love yourself so much that you can not stand to harm yourself in anyway even being angry. Anger harms you not the other way round.
2. Trust - Trust yourself so much that you have no time to doubt your partner for hurting you, cause if you have it all, why worry? They loose you not the other way round.
3. Find a character and BECOME IT!
I will explain on this, by character I don't mean Movies, no, I simply mean what makes you, YOU? When people hear your name or see your picture, what do they relate you to? Are you short tempered? Crazy? Simple? Patient? Happy? Relaxed?
As a wife, husband, sister, brother, son, daughter, parent, aunty, uncle, grannies... what character defines you? Nag? Humble? Loving? Stingy? Etc
People will treat you with regard to that character that identifies you, so be wise and choose wisely, what do people say you are?
This bitter wife was bitter, and it just makes sense, why would this man choose to live in bitterness?
With Love!
@RehemaImoryTz
