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A recent breakup?? 🤔
Recuperating from a broken relationship??? Working on fading out the past memories??? Interacting with more people aiming to overcome the mental stress?? Listening to music, watching other art forms to vent out the grief within you???
Well, almost all of us must have had an experience where our heart was broken not into two but many parts. Perhaps, we get to believe that we are flawed permanently and we can never be back to our orginial way. It seems that with that relationship we have even lost a part of ourselves. We get a feeling of never being able to move on, to give an another chance to ourselves , to never be able to fall in love.
However, halt for a while, take a vacation from your normal schedule and enter into a phase of retrospection and introspection. We need to reminiscence the old times to decrypt the faults that were made both by us and our counterpart. It is important to understand that as a one sided relationship cannot flourish the same way it can never be doomed due to one person. Mistakes will be inherent on both the ends. The vital question is not who initiated the wrong move or who had the more counts rather who was the first to stop making efforts in mitigating issues is what is required.
Anguish and exasperation are intertwined in a breakup state and having a knowledge of where we slipped off from the cliff gives us maturity, power and control sufficient enough to maintain a balance between the two. It is to be always ackniwledged that 'Hate' is not a counterpoise to a breakup rather moving on is. Knowing where we failed as a partner either as a recipient or in reciprocation is exactly the force that gives us the needed potential to move forward in life and to still have credibility in the fact that true love is a beautiful feeling to experience.
It is to be remembered always that no matter how good or bad your past relationship was. If it was 'LOVE' it will always end in making 'YOU' a better and a stronger version of yourself because, love is what that blooms a flower not wither it down!!!
Well, almost all of us must have had an experience where our heart was broken not into two but many parts. Perhaps, we get to believe that we are flawed permanently and we can never be back to our orginial way. It seems that with that relationship we have even lost a part of ourselves. We get a feeling of never being able to move on, to give an another chance to ourselves , to never be able to fall in love.
However, halt for a while, take a vacation from your normal schedule and enter into a phase of retrospection and introspection. We need to reminiscence the old times to decrypt the faults that were made both by us and our counterpart. It is important to understand that as a one sided relationship cannot flourish the same way it can never be doomed due to one person. Mistakes will be inherent on both the ends. The vital question is not who initiated the wrong move or who had the more counts rather who was the first to stop making efforts in mitigating issues is what is required.
Anguish and exasperation are intertwined in a breakup state and having a knowledge of where we slipped off from the cliff gives us maturity, power and control sufficient enough to maintain a balance between the two. It is to be always ackniwledged that 'Hate' is not a counterpoise to a breakup rather moving on is. Knowing where we failed as a partner either as a recipient or in reciprocation is exactly the force that gives us the needed potential to move forward in life and to still have credibility in the fact that true love is a beautiful feeling to experience.
It is to be remembered always that no matter how good or bad your past relationship was. If it was 'LOVE' it will always end in making 'YOU' a better and a stronger version of yourself because, love is what that blooms a flower not wither it down!!!
