In my community it is very important that we use and appreciate the voice and opinions of our leaders,our elders. It is a beautiful thing. We get to know each and able to socialize with each other in a way we know that it is suitable accordingly to our culture and our standards. And so we respect the elders by taking their advice on this and that must be done. It is how we are able to go by each day smoothly, there are hardly any kinds of conflict where there is a need to discipline the kids or at least try and make them understand how this and that must be done. It was all layed out the moment we were born....