We are not prepared.
Few women among all women criticized, body-shamed a man, over his look and his appearance, the hypocrisy would that if they faced the same, they Shout loud of feminism, or pseudo feminism. I wouldn't write absurd, I have heard it from a girl who fetish about the man to be groomed, fit, rich, and look fair in color, their fetish created a paradox for average men, all the life we look at the mirror and asked what less in us that we didn't deserve a partner? A companion, from our effort, it all tended to take a bigger picture...