In order to find yourself, what do you do?
Watching the mirror, apparently it says the truth, and you define yourself based on the same rules and that's enough for you
But the real picture of you is not in the mirror but it is inside of you, which is not visible,
So for finding yourself ypu should go to the deepest level of yourself
Or your "soul"
When you find it, growing will hapoen
The growth of your mind and soul
And this is the time that your value means to you which is unbreakable by other's opinions on your style, ideas, and other things.