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Respect!
I ain't a feminist, i ain't supporting women only.
I'm just saying the thing that i wanted to say from a long time. Everytime girls aren't wrong, we aren't the one's who are the culprits. Just because most of the girls don't talk about their feelings, they don't share their sentiments, many of the boys think that the girls are the culprit, they are weak. Naah! I'm talking about what I have gone through, we aren't even given the freedom to speak, we are always suppressed by the tag "Tum ladki ho, chup hojao, nai tou bohat badnami hojayegi". Why? Why should we always keep quiet? Why are we always suppressed? Why are we considered as the weeker gender? Why? Aren't we humans? Aren't we having feelings?
Every liberty, every freedom is given to men. So they are able to break someone, they are able to play with anyone. And even no one is there to question them. So they are of the perspective that we aren't answerable to anyone, we can do anything that we want.
You had been left by someone and that person wasn't bothered about you at that time. They'll come to you after 1 year, 2 years and you still start trusting over them. Why do you think that they won't ditch you again? Why do you trust them blindly? Yes, that's just because you think that everyone is just like you. But naah! everyone isn't like you, everyone isn't as nice as you are. If a girl is emotional and she gets attached to you very easily and she is fearing of the detachment, then you don't have any right to play with her feelings no! You haven't got any right of ditching her. She isn't your servant, she isn't there to handle your mood swings, she isn't there to bear your tantrums. Her parents had raised her very keenly, she is having her own respect, so you are no one to disrespect her. You are no one to judge her. Naah! You gotta mind your own business.
Eveyone isn't alike and eveyone's perspective is never alike.
So if you aren't capable of handling her, then at least try to respect her. Because she isn't your maid, she isn't week.
She is the one who is handling everything all alone. She can't talk to her mother about her breakup. She isn't able to utter everything going inside her. She isn't able to express her own emotions.
Stop disrespecting her.
Stop torturing her mentally.
Stop playing with her feelings.
© palveen