I have experienced many situations, came across many feelings and emotions and now I can confidently say that "It's good to be in realities rather in expectations." I have felt the pain the way it feels when our expectations are not fulfilled and that is the point where one feels very low, starts to lack confidence, feels very unlucky and repeats the same question again and again to the God that "why it's me......"

So now basically coming across all these feelings experiencing them I can conclude that Expectations are something which WE BUILT.......
We apparently think to be very confident about something or we expect some good things to happen with us.... But as we know DESTINY has its own way.....

A person breaks down when his expectations are crushed in front of his eyes. He repeatedly thinks....
damn
"What I thought and what happened"....
"Why this always happens with me"....
"Why I am only the one??? "
"I guess I am very unlucky....."

And in this way one starts to feel low..... that overconfidence in past turns down to under confidence in present and further extends to future.....

And thus I suggest strongly to never have high or virtual expectations from within .... cuz the consequences are very bad, if it's not fulfilled. And if luckily or by any chance any of your expectations are fulfilled than it will surely approach you to some other expectations ,may be quite higher than the previous one and if it fails to be reached, than it will be surely more heartbreaking.....

Therefore, highly convey you to stay in realities cuz realities are very simple and indeed it make you more strong in every level or stage of it and teach you a lot and prepares you for further stages in life.

"SOMETIMES WE CREATE OUR OWN HEARTBREAKS THROUGH EXPECTATIONS."

~SANJIVANI GUPTA